July 12, 2011

How to Deal with Failure


Written by DJ Fuji         Topics: Approach Anxiety,Self Improvement


I have a love/hate relationship with failure. That is, for the first few years of my journey, failure loved me and I absolutely hated it. It often felt like a dark cloud that would follow me around all the time. But despite all of my disadvantages in dating (5’4″, asian, introvert, lacking social skills, etc), I eventually acquired one thing that helped me overcome all of that — I had a friend who taught me that my biggest weakness wasn’t anything I could see, touch, or observe. [Read More]



Written by DJ Fuji         Topics: Pickup




Written by DJ Fuji         Topics: Current Events,Humor

Infield with Quagmire the Guru

Quick post tonight… thought I’d pass this along to you guys. The TV show Family Guy just aired an episode called “Tiegs for Two” that’s unmistakably about PUAs. [Read More]


March 22, 2011

Still Alive. Barely.


Written by DJ Fuji         Topics: News


Barely Alive Yes, I did just post a Street Fighter 4 screenshot

All right, quick little status update for everyone and then a fun little bonus video at the end.

So first off, yes, I am still alive, and yes, tales of my demise have been greatly exaggerated. What actually happened during my 3-month-hiatus was that for some reason, everyone decided to sign up for my Long Term Coaching Program.

All at once.

I’m not exactly sure why. I was pretty content to coach the small group I had in 2010, but something happened in 2011 [Read More]



Written by DJ Fuji         Topics: Mailbag,Pickup


I want to address a question I received via email today that I’m guessing a LOT of you are wondering about:

Hey man, love the blog. I have a question about routines. When I got started I used a bunch of routines for the attraction phase and got decent results out of it. By the end I could get phone numbers on a pretty consistent basis, and some were flaky but some were solid. I wanted to check my skill level without routines so I started using a social opener, and then following it up with relying on my conversation skills off the bat. What I find is that most conversations went well, but some girls would just stand around and give one word input indefinitely. I imagine this is sometimes because they aren’t interested, and sometimes because they are just boring, so in either case I usually just walk away after a minute. Is there something I am missing here? Am I being too quick to judge? If so, what’s the best way to deal with this contingency? -J

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Written by DJ Fuji         Topics: Life Coaching,Pickup,Self Improvement


As of today, you now have 11 days left in the year 2010. Seems like the year flew by, huh? I know it did for me.

Most of us are probably thinking about New Years, or Christmas, or what our resolutions are going to be for 2011. But don’t wait for January to start doing things. Here are seven things (in no particular order) you can and should do in the next 11 days to close out 2010 with a bang. [Read More]

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Written by DJ Fuji         Topics: General